Lubudlelwane babantu ku isizwe samaNdebele kusuka eNingizimu Afrika iyamangalisa. Uma ilungu linesiphambeko, akukho isinqumo esibi, akukho isijeziso. Amalungu esizwe amlondoloza ukwelashwa okuhlukile ...
Isifundo esihle sabantu besigaba sesiNdebele
Impucuko yethu yanamuhla ngokuqinisekile inezifundo ezithile ezinhle zesintu - nokuthobeka - ukuthatha emakhelwane. Isizwe samaNdebele ikakhulukazi.
Yize kunjalo sithanda ukukholelwa ukuthi siyingxenye "yomphakathi ophucukile kakhulu". Uhlobo lomvuthwandaba womlando wesintu lapho ukukhetha okwenziwe kungcono kakhulu.
Kodwa-ke, eminye imiphakathi emhlabeni wonke inokusebenza komphakathi okungahluka kakhulu kunokwethu. Ngabe akulungile kangako kukho konke lokho?
Asikho isigwebo esizweni samaNdebele
Ngo Ndebele, isizwe eNingizimu Afrika, lapho othile enza iphutha, yena ungakwesokunene iphutha: namanye amalungu omphakathi basabela nge esintwini ukuthi kungase kubonakale Okumangaza emehlweni ethu Western.umuzwa wobuntu uphuma kulo muntu
Izinsuku ezimbili, bazungeza "ngeshwa" baxoxe naye ngakho konke okuhle nokuhle akwenzile esikhathini esedlule. Ngakho-ke bazokwazisa isihloko esilahlekile okwesikhashana ngangokunokwenzeka. Ngale ndlela bamvumela ukuthi aphinde axhumane nesimo sakhe sangempela futhi abuyisele iqembu kabusha. Akunasigwebo esidingekayo. Ukubuyiselwa komphakathi ngokushesha.
Esizweni sesiNdebele, inkolelo yokuthi abantu bahle ngokwemvelo nokuthi bonke bafuna ukuphepha, uthando, ukuthula nenjabulo kuqinisekile. Kulolu cwaningo, iphutha lomuntu siqu lingenzeka, kodwa amalungu omphakathi aqinisekisa ukuthi omunye nomunye akalahleki.
Nathi: ukucindezelwa nokuvinjelwa kwenkululeko
Ukubheka kanye nesenzo esihle esivela emphakathini weNdebele ukuthi lowo ohlulekayo kubonakala kude kakhulu nokusebenza kwethu. Kodwa singayinikeza kanjani isikhathi nesidingo esifanele? Isikhathi sethu esitholakalayo sinciphise, indlela yethu yokuphila yomkhiqizi-umthengi iphelele ngokuphelele enkosini yayo: imali.
I-Ndebele ifuna ukuxabisa umonile kunokumjezisa. Nathi siyini isigwebo, njengoba kunikezwe umthetho.
Abantu kuqala futhi okubaluleke kakhulu
Singalindela kanjani ukuthi ngolunye usuku, ushintsho olubalulekile lomphakathi olucabangela umuntu ngaphambi kwenzuzo lungenzeka ekhaya?
Abezombusazwe bethu sebengabaphathi bezimali abalula, lapho lo msebenzi ubungenziwa - futhi nangcono - ngababhali bama akhawunti. Cha, akufanele ulindele noma yini kubo. Umehluko omkhulu okhona phakathi kwempucuko "yesimanjemanje" efana neyethu, nokusebenza kwemiphakathi okuthiwa "incane", ukuleli phuzu elibalulekile: ubuhlobo nemali.
Imiphakathi yanamuhla iphenduka imali
Umphakathi wethu ugxile emalini, engcebweni nasemandleni. Abantu basemuva kwesidingo esibekiwe sokuthola okuningi, ukukhiqiza okuningi nokudla okuningi. Sengathi izindinganiso zethu kanye nokuziphatha kwethu kuthulisiwe, kulungiswe ngokuphelele njengoba sinjalo ngokuzinikela komzimba wethu nomphefumulo ekukhuleni komnotho okungcwele.
Ithonya iNdiya elibhekene nabaseNtshonalanga ...
Ubulungiswa kumodi "yethemba"
Ekhaya, lowo onecala unecala futhi unecala, ngethemba lokuthi ukuvinjelwa kwenkululeko okuvunyelwe kuyamvumela ukuba ashintshe. Kumodi yethemba ukuthi ubulungiswa bethu busebenza. Kunoma yikuphi, kunemithombo embalwa kakhulu yezimali nezomuntu okumele isebenze ngenye indlela.
Kodwa-ke, ukuvinjelwa kwenkululeko, ukwehliswa okwesikhashana kwamalungelo ayisisekelo omuntu ongenayo umthelela oyifunayo. Abaningi baphindela emuva. Mhlawumbe umphakathi wethu kufanele ubheke kule nkinga: ubulungiswa benza izinqumo ziyazi ukuthi azisebenzi.
Isigwebo esinegama kuphela
Isigwegwe esazi ukuthi kusengaphambili siphumelele - noma sincane kakhulu - sibhekene nokuhlushwa kunanoma yini enye. Lokhu kunoma yikuphi ukuphathwa okubi okubonakalayo. Kokubi kakhulu ukuthi akuphumelelanga, noma konke okungajwayelekile, ukuvuselela umenzi wobubi emphakathini.
Kodwa ngemuva komuntu ngamunye "onecala" ucasha umuntu ngamakhono akhe nangezinto eziningi azizuzile, njengakumaNdebele Kungenzeka yini ukuthi abanamaphutha ethu babe ngcono uma, esikhundleni sokwenza bazizwe benecala, bethandwa? Kunzima ukwazi ngaphandle kokuzama.
"Sawubona" - "Sikhona"
Ukuphetha ngivumele ngethule ukubingelela kweNdebele, futhi ugcwele abantu:
Njengoba sithi sawubona, bathi "sawubona" - ngiyakwazisa, ngiyakuhlonipha, ubalulekile kimi. Impendulo ithi "sikhona" - ngakho-ke ngikhona ngawe.
