LUbubele buvela lapho uqaphela ukuthi wonke umuntu unesifo sengqondo esifanayo. Khona-ke awusabhebhezeli idrama etholakala kunoma ibuphi ubudlelwano obusekelwe ukuzazisa. Ayini amandla edrama? I-reactivity. I-ego idla ngakho. Ukuhlonzwa ngo-“I”, lokho esikubiza ngokuthi i-ego, isethi yemicabango yethu nezimo ezitholwe kusukela ebuntwaneni bethu obuthambile kakhulu. I-ego ayiyona i-persona non grata, iyingxenye yethu, futhi akunakwenzeka ukuhlukana nayo.
Ngendlela elula, kungabaluleka ukukuqaphela nokuqaphela ukuthi kungakanani, ngezinye izikhathi isimo sethu esivezwa kithi. Isiphakamiso asikona ukufuna ukuhlukana ne-ego, kodwa ukuqaphela nje, ukukwamukela njengoba injalo, ukukwamukela njengoba kunjalo, kancane njengomntwana-mina, lo mntwana kithi ongakakhuli futhi angavuthwanga ngempela. Ngezinye izikhathi i- izwi ekhanda lethu mhlawumbe iphethini yengqondo enesimo futhi ephindaphindayo. Qonda ukuthi izwi lingumcabangi, ingaphambili kanye nokwazi kwethu, isizinda. Lapho ukwazi ukubona ukuthi umuntu ocabangayo uyakhuluma, lapho-ke asisakhonjwa ngokuphelele ne-ego yethu.
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