Lumshado ophelele ukuhlangana kwabantu ababili abazi kahle ukuthanda. Ukuze kube nothando lweqiniso, kuyadingeka ukuthi owesilisa nowesifazane bakhonzane ezindizeni eziyisikhombisa ezinkulu zomhlaba. Ukuze kube nothando, kufanele kube nokuhlangana kwangempela komphefumulo emikhakheni emithathu yomcabango, imizwa nentando. Lapho izidalwa ezimbili zidlidlizela ngokuvumelana emicabangweni yazo, imizwa kanye nokuthanda kwazo, khona-ke umshado ophelele wenzeka ezindizeni eziyisikhombisa zokwazi ngomkhathi. Kunabantu abazithola beshade ezindizeni zomzimba nezisemzimbeni, kepha abekho ku-astral. Abanye bashade ezindizeni zomzimba, ze-etheric, ne-astral, kepha abashadanga endizeni yengqondo; yilowo nalowo ucabanga ngendlela yakhe; owesifazane unenkolo eyodwa futhi indoda enye; abahambisani nabakucabangayo.